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Internet Hoaxes and Everyday Stewardship

Friday, October 19th, 2007

As I often do, I received an e-mail today from a well-meaning soul warning me about a particularly dangerous internet virus. As an act of Everyday Stewardship I DON”T immediately pass them along to anyone else. I first verify their accuracy.

I do this for as a matter of personal, relationship and collective integrity.

On the level of integrity with myself (personal integrity), only passing along information I have done my best to verify the credibility of is partly about self-respect. I don’t like myself when I am irresponsible.

On the level of relationship integrity, people’s lives are hectic and stressful enough without being sent unnecessary causes for concern. Forward to others these kinds of warnings before making certain they are accurate is asking those we care about to spend unnecessary time and experience unneeded stress.

On the level of collective integrity, all of us are already bathed in a culture of fear. Passing along items such as these before verifying them adds a totally unnecessary layer of fear to this climate. I believe this is a disservice to collective highest good. That is what makes this an opportunity to fulfill our roles as Everyday Stewards.
Verification of internet scams is simple to do, takes only a moment, and is, I believe, a matter of integrity and social responsibility in the Internet age. Verification involves a quick visit to one of the many reputable scam-monitoring websites. I most commonly start my research on either the Snopes website (www.snopes.com) or the Scam Busters website (www.scambusters.org). I simply enter the name of the alert and, voila, information comes up about whether that item is true, partly true or a lie. (You can find additional scam monitoring sites by Googling “internet scams” and “internet fraud.”

You can also simply Google the name of the alert item and then add the word “hoax” or “scam.”)

As an act of Everyday Stewardship, check all alerts to see if they are hoaxes before forwarding them to those you care about. Just because the person forwarded an alert to you is well-intended don’t blindly assume that that this means they have done their homework before forwarding the alert. Check yourself!

The same goes for supposed “news stories,” “commentaries” or “secret information,” especially items allegedly written by people whose credibility you trust, or forwarded to you by someone you trust. Agreeing or disagreeing with the information you receive does not always mean that it is true or accurate. This is a matter of discernment.

For more about discernment and becoming a better Everyday Steward, read my book, The New IQ: How Integrity Intelligence Serves Us All. It will be released in January 2008. In the meantime, sign up for my free sneak preview eCourse about the book by going to www.willingness.com, clicking on “Freebies” and then clicking on “Free eCourses.” Or, click here to go there directly.

Thank You for This Blog!

Tuesday, October 31st, 2006
Dear David:
I would be happy to have you post on your blog what I have written below.

Thank you very much for your “Integrity Blog” with all the detailed information and scope — I greatly appreciate your clarity in putting all these issues together so succinctly under the “Lack of Integrity Pandemic“, your thorough step by step aspects cover much, and speaks to me in a positive way about an extreme experience I have recently had. I especially like your section on ‘Everyday Narcissism’ and notice this occurring as some people have come to believe that whatever they do is acceptable as long as they serve themselves. In Canada, some recent occurrences with our elected officials are demonstrating this right now, and setting up examples that make others believe this behaviour is okay! The distance that is created with this lack of integrity feeds a population that no longer trust, or know how to have intimacy in their close relationships. Your section on ‘Prescription Medicines and Dysfunctional Systems’ connects as well, when people look to outsiders as “experts” who prescribe pharmaceuticals as solutions to this lack of closeness. Thanks so much for providing the words to start to bring a balance, and to stop this before it becomes an even greater epidemic!

Warmly,
Arlene Anisman
Arlene Anisman, M.Ed., Psychotherapist, Clinical Member OSP
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